Heartland Center for Spirituality
eNewsletter for Winter 2012


A. Inspirational Note
B. SpiritLife news
C. Forthcoming Programs
D. Looking Ahead
E. Internet Ministry
F. Staff Notes
G. Private and Directed Retreats
H. Spiritual Direction, Outreach Programs
I. Engaged Encounter Weekends
J. Contact information


Individual Retreats, Private and Directed


Individual retreats are entirely tailored to the personal needs of the retreatant. Time spent in quiet reflection facilitates your spiritual journey. Access to video and book library is available.

A private retreat offers space, access to facilities and scheduling around Community liturgies and meals, however the retreatant does not need to fit into any prearranged plan. The fee is $38 for the first day and $33 for successive days which includes room and meals.
- note: we now offer a "Body and Soul" private retreat package that includes room, board, reflection resources, access to a local health club, and additional options for massage and spiritual direction. See http://tinyurl.com/y9t5xhl for more information.

A directed retreat offers the same as above plus an opportunity to meet with a Spiritual Director. The fee is an additional $40 per session.

Directors: (contact info below).
Renee Dreiling OP: invites you to discover the surprises that God splashes in and among the pleasures and pains of life.
Jolene Geier OP: invites you to root your spiritual journey in the broader world view where issues of peace and justice affect your soul choices.
Philip St. Romain D. Min.: as a Catholic layman, husband, father and author, invites you to see the possibilities for a contemplative life in the midst of busy-ness. (3 day retreats only)
Connie Burkholder, M. Div. invites you to a deeper awareness of and attentiveness to God’s presence, love, and action in your life. She is available for individual direction and directed Ignatian Retreats.
Ann Axman invites you to explore the daily moments as sacred and gifts from God.
Marcia Berchek offers a time to be fully present to God in the midst of ordinary concerns.



Spiritual Direction, Outreach Programs


The Center is staffed by gifted and competent individuals who are trained as "spiritual companions," both to individuals and groups on their faith journey. Staff members are also available to churches, service organizations and businesses for on-site retreats, parish missions, devotionals, workshops, community-building, conferences, and mission/staff development in a faith context.



Internet Ministry

Interactive Retreats and Workshops (uses email and discussion forum)
http://www.shalomplace.org/
Current offerings include the following:
1. Psychological Types and Spirituality
2. Freedom from Codependency
3. The Way of Christian Spirituality
4. Christian Spirituality Resources
5. Wonderfully Made (Christian metaphysics)
6. Growing in Christ
7. Communities in Transition (Spiral Dynamics�)
8. Discerning God's Will
9. Dark Night of the Soul
10. Silence, Solitude and Sabbath summer retreat (see above for more info).
11. The Five Consents

Daily Spiritual Seed
http://shalomplace.com/seed/
Free email newsletter on Christian spirituality featuring a quote by a mystic, meditations on the lectionary readings, and lessons in spiritual living.

Workshops and Retreats in Real Audio
http://shalomplace.com/inetmin/
You can listen to the conferences online and reflect on the handout resources. The following are currently available.
1. Christian Mysteries
2. Catholic Responses to Fundamentalism
3. Freedom from Codependency
4. Basics of Spirituality
5. A Debate on the Topic of Abortion
6. Pathways to Serenity
7. Lessons in Loving

Shalom Place Christian Spirituality Center
http://shalomplace.com/
Includes the resources listed above plus a great deal more, including a discussion forum, bookstore, and a wide variety of spiritual exercises.



Engaged Encounter Weekends

Heartland Center for Spirituality is pleased to host Engaged Encounter Weekends for the Diocese of Dodge City.


2012
Jan. 13-15
Mar. 2-4
Apr 20-22
June 29-July 1
Sept. 14-16

For information contact Ronn and Annie Roehm at 620-728-0855.
For reservations contact Mike and Lindsey Mazouch at 620-792-6290



Contact Information

3600 Broadway
Great Bend, KS 78530
www.heartlandspirituality.org
office@heartlandspirituality.org
620-792-1232

Scheduling Programs, Facilities and Retreats
Brenda Black, Ext. 108

Spiritual Direction
Jolene Geier OP, Ext. 124
Philip St. Romain D. Min. Ext. 118
Renee Dreiling OP, Ext. 110
Connie Burkholder, M.Div. Ext. 543
Ann Axman. Ext. 101
Marcia Berchek. 620-797-3660

Outreach Programs
Renee Dreiling OP, Ext. 103

Internet Ministry
Philip St. Romain D. Min. Ext. 118


Inspirational Note
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Another year has gone by! It does seem that the older one gets, the quicker they pass. I am reminded, here, of the words of the Psalmist (90: 12):

Teach us to number our days aright, that we might gain wisdom of heart.

Every day is a gift, and each moment is an opportunity to grow more fully in this "wisdom of heart." My one and only resolution for 2012 is to live these moments more fully, open to God's loving guidance. I am also aware that a moment missed is lost forever, but this is not a total tragedy for as long as we are alive we are constantly given another moment, and another . . .

There are many obstacles to living fully in the present moment: selfishness, judgmentalism, a desire to control the outcome, comparing ourselves with others, and so forth. But even to be aware of these attitudes is a way of living fully, and we cannot re-assert our openness to God if we are unaware of our inner storm clouds. Having done so, we can then gently refocus on God's invitation to be here now in love.

Love seems to be the key. As long as we are willing to give what is required (including simply listening or waiting) and do what needs to be done in the interest of love, we can live more fully in the moment. When this willingness to love is weakened or lost, however, we are "off to the races" with our default, fallen consciousness running the show. Lord have mercy!

May you have many moments well-lived during the coming year.


Please support our ministry

We welcome you as a partner in evangelization and spiritual formation through your prayers and financial support. The link below enables secure, online donations via credit card, or see our contact information below if you'd prefer to mail a check. Thank you for your consideration.



SpiritLife News

We completed the Fall semester on December 3rd and are open to receiving new registrants for the Winter/Spring semester. Forthcoming class dates and presentations are as follows:

January 7, 2012
a. Martin Luther and Ignatius of Loyola, by Fr. Kerry Ninemire
b. Spiral Dynamics, by Philip St. Romain
c. Apostolic Spirituality, by Fr. Kerry Ninemire.

February 4, 2012
a. The Carmelite Doctors of the Church, by Jane Belanger OP
b. Dark Nights of the Soul, by Renee Dreiling OP
c. Spiritual Charisms: What Are They? by Jolene Geier OP and Ann Axman

March 3, 2012
a. Therese Lisieux and Jean Pierre de Caussade, by Philip St. Romain
b. James Fowler's Stages of Faith, by Renee Dreiling OP
c. Spiritual Charisms: How Do We Use Them? by Jolene Geier OP and Ann Axman

March 31, 2012
a. The Quietist Backlash, by Philip St. Romain
b. Ken Wilber's 4QAL, by Philip St. Romain
c. Writing Your Mission Statement, by Marcia Berchek

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SpiritLife is a two-year spiritual enrichment process with an additional option for those interested spiritual director formation. Participants may begin in either Year One or Year Two; non-credit participation for any class day or individual presentation is also welcomed.
- http://heartlandspirituality.org/spiritlife/
for information and registration.



Forthcoming Programs
Reserve your place using our online registration form, or you can call or email the Center (see contact info below).

Peer Supervision for Spiritual Directors
Dates: (Friday 7:30 p.m. - Saturday 3:30 p.m.):
February 17-18, 2012
August 3-4, 2012
October 26-27, 2012
March 8-9, 2013
In order to provide for the continuing growth and formation of spiritual directors trained in our SpiritLife program, we will provide several get-togethers at Heartland Center for Spirituality during the coming months.
- We are opening this opportunity for anyone who has completed a spiritual director formation program and is currently seeing directees.
During this time, we will provide opportunities for fellowship, support, sharing resources, and peer supervision (contemplative observer approach taught by Jane Vennard). The team at Heartland Center will provide hospitality and direction for this process.
- see http://www.heartlandspirituality.org/spiritlife/supervision.html for payment links and info.

RCIA Retreat 2012: Journeys to Conversion
Sr. Jolene Geier OP, Ann Axman and Sr. Matilda Monterroso MCMI
February 11, Great Bend, KS, Heartland Center for Spirituality
February 18, Dodge City, KS, Our Lady of Guadalupe Cathedral
Registration: $55 per parish plus $15 per person, or $20 per person (includes lunch; ask about family rates)
To register, contact Brenda by email or phone (620-792-1232) or FAX (620-792-1746).


Chocolate Boutique Getaway (Women’s Retreat)
by Pastor Nancy Modin, Marcia Berchek and Cecilia Peltier
Saturday (9:00-3:30)
(Note: the retreat scheduled for January 28, 2012 has been postponed until further notice. We are leaving this listing posted to obtain names of those who will be interested in attending when it is offered. Please use the link below to reserve your place.)

$30 commuter fee (includes materials, lunch and snacks)
$50 (includes overnight lodging Jan.27, materials, breakfast, lunch and snacks)
Join us as we indulge ourselves at Chocolate Boutique (also something for those unable to eat chocolate). Together we’ll experience meaningful devotions, chocolaty activities, and lots of rejuvenating fun. Bring a friend or make new friends. It’s a time to relax, deepen your relationship with Jesus, and be pampered as well!
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Online registration


Looking Ahead

Holy Week Retreat 2012: "Into Your hands, I commend my spirit."
by Rev. Paul H. Colloton, D. Min.
Option one: April 1 - 5 (Palm Sunday Liturgy - Holy Thursday Morning) $200
Option two: Triduum Retreat, April 5 - 8 (Holy Thursday Liturgy - Easter Morning Liturgy) $150
Option three: April 1 - 8 (Palm Sunday Liturgy - Easter morning Liturgy) $300

The practice of surrender is a form of detachment. A major obstacle to spiritual depth is attachment. Classical spiritual literature instructs us in the dangers of attachment. Sur- render is a remedy to that obsessive tendency. Jesus surrendered his very life to God, but not without pain and suffering. Let us walk with Jesus this Holy Week and learn from him what it means to surrender our lives, emptying ourselves with Him and giving our lives into God’s hands like Him, knowing that the promise of sharing in His Resurrection is His offer to us.
- Full description flyer

- Online registration

Theology Institute 2012
by Carla Mae Streeter OP
"Dominican Spirituality Today"
June 15-19, 2012
$175 commuter fee (includes lunch Saturday - Tuesday)
$295.00 (includes room and board)
- free room June 19 and 20 for those who also come to the "Listening to God" retreat June 21-25 (see below)
Who are we as Dominicans in the Church and world today? How is our charism distinctive? How do we word it today? If Dominic were here today, what would he wrestle with? How would he approach questions involving ecology, evolution, the new atheists? What light would he bring to doctrinal questions such as original sin and the role of the Church among other faith traditions? We are men and women of the Word. What word do folks need to hear from us at this time, in this age? These days we will explore these questions and more. Together we will explore who we are...for TODAY.
- Full description brochure

- Online registration

Listening to God: A Contemplative Retreat
by Philip St. Romain, M.S., D. Min.
June 21 (7:00 p.m.) -25 (1:00 p.m.), 2012
$295.00 (includes room and board)
- free room June 19 and 20 for those who also come to our Theology Institute June 15-19 (see above)
"How does God speak to you, and what is God communicating these days?" will be the focus of this retreat. We will observe contemplative silence throughout except for times of group prayer and short teachings. Each day will include opportunities for praying the Liturgy of the Hours, Mass, group Lectio Divina, group contemplative sitting, and spiritual direction; there will be many hours of unstructured, open times for walks on our grounds, rest, or whatever one chooses. Come prepared to enter more deeply into the silence to become more aware of God's presence and action in your life.



Staff Notes

by Brenda Black
There is a wonderful couple whom we have gotten to know and love as they have come to our Center for personal retreats and with their ongoing church program over the course of about 10 years. They are a testament to devotion and faithfulness – to each other, to their faith community and to God. They are unable to come as often as they used to, but when they do its like dear friends coming to visit.

The last time they were here, we were discussing vegan and gluten-free recipes and they shared this one. I like using different grains, especially quinoa (keen WAH’), so I had to try it. It does get better with time, so leftovers are great and quinoa is high in protein, so its perfect to take to work for lunch.

* * * Quinoa Salad * * *

1 cup quinoa, rinsed several times in cold water and drained
1/4 cup olive oil
1/4 cup balsamic vinegar
1/4 cup soy sauce
1 teaspoons basil
2 teaspoons minced garlic
1/2 teaspoon sea salt, optional
1/8 teaspoon ground black pepper
1 cup cooked or canned black beans, rinsed and drained
1 cup whole kernel corn
1 large ripe tomato, peeled, seeded, and diced (about 1/2 cup)
1 small sweet red pepper, seeded, and chopped (about 1/2 cup)
2 green onions or Vidalia onion, finely chopped (about 1/4 cup)
2 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley leaves, optional

In medium saucepan, heat 1� cups water to boiling over high heat. Add 1 cup quinoa grains. Reduce heat to low, cover and simmer until liquid is absorbed—about 10-12 minutes. Remove from heat and let cool completely.

In large bowl, mix together beans, corn, tomato, red pepper, green onions, basil, garlic, and parsley. Whisk olive oil, vinegar and soy sauce together and pour over vegetables. Add cooled, cooked quinoa, mixing well.

Serve at room temperature or refrigerate for 30 minutes before serving.

Makes 8-10 servings. Note: This salad improves over time, so it can be made a day ahead.

God of Relationships, you give us many and varied friendships; some for a short period of time, some for a times of transition and some for a lifetime. Thank you for them all – for their care and support, for the lessons they teach us, the memories they create. Bless them all with health and happiness. Help us to be alert to opportunities for friendship and to be a kind and gentle presence to those You bring into our lives.

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by Sr. Jolene Geier OP

One of my favorite poems in The Circle of Life; The Heart’s Journey Through the Seasons by Joyce Rupp and Macrina Wiederkehr is “Listening to Winter”. The lines “I am listening to faith rising out of doubt. I am listening to the need to believe without seeing.” are particularly haunting my contemplation “to the quiet of winter” and the “sacrament of non-doing”.

I chose to stay in Great Bend to celebrate a quiet Christmas instead of traveling elsewhere to be with my brothers and sisters and their families. I especially enjoyed the chanting of the Christmas Novena, nine days of prayer we sisters offer for all our families, friends and benefactors. A spiritual Christmas Gift to be sure. During this sacred winter time and Christmas vacation I found myself practicing a corporal work of mercy burying the dead over and over again these past days. We had Sisters, Associates, devoted employees and friends say earthly goodbyes to loved ones. There have been many tears shed in witnessing this mystery of life.

On a brighter note I am looking forward to working with Ann Axman on four events this coming new year—two presentations Feb. 4 and March 3 on Charisms with the SpiritLife participants and two diocesan RCIA retreats one in Great Bend Feb. 11 and one in Dodge City Feb.18, 2012. I find Ann a gifted youthful teacher very invigorating to stand beside in Heartland Center events.

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by Sr. Renee Dreiling OP

Sr. Renee Dreiling

A Child in Winter: Advent, Christmas and Epiphany with Caryll Houselander has been a staple of my prayer and reflection since it was published in 2000. Re-reading it never grows and old and new insights come each year. The invitation to “secret ourselves with Mary, to join our hearts with hers, and to grow pregnant with God together” is always welcome and stirs a deep longing within me to make more room for Jesus in my life.

Over the years I have invited directees to join in the riches and delight this book of reflections and wisdom brings. It was heartwarming to witness the blessings and strength it brought to one directee struggling with a complex and difficult family situation. Hope was truly born in her, though the difficult circumstances didn’t really change.

The reflections tie in with an address Sister Barbara Reid OP gave to the Leadership Conference of Women Religious this past summer in which she offered a view of the mystery of death as “the birth pangs of hope and new life”. She invited the leadership of women religious to embrace the role of midwife as communities of religious women diminish. But I find it fits for me and for many directees as well. The economy, the world situation, the hardships couples endure in the job market, the diminishment and sometimes terrific illness of parents, of children, of friends—all call for a birthing of hope and new life it seems.

Sister Miriam Ukeritis CSJ, CEO of The Southdown Institute, wrote a reflection, “Nurturing New Life” in the December 2011 issue of their newsletter. She shares the story of a friend who was a midwife in South America, and who had been called to assist in the birth of a child in a shed, where not only all the family came in and out, but also the chickens came in and out. As the labor drug out, the husband kept coming in and asking the wife where she had put the cow which he could not find! Finally the midwife had to put a stop to the husband’s concerns about the cow as well as to the chickens wandering in and out of the shed and insist that the birth become the focus of the effort and attention of the family! And shortly a healthy baby was born!

How often in life and in ministry, Sister Miriam wrote, do the ‘chickens” that wander in and out of our lives, and the “cow” that we can’t find, become the focus of our lives and prevent us from seeing the new life about to happen?

A powerful question, worthy of reflection!

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by Connie Burkholder, M. Div.

For the last few weeks as part of my morning prayer time I’ve been reading from There is a Season by Joan Chittister, Art by John August Swanson. Sr. Joan reflects on the artwork by Swanson that is based on Ecclesiastes 3. It’s been wonderful to read her words and to prayerfully look at the lovely panels for each of the phrases from the scripture. Here are Sr. Joan’s concluding words in the section on “A Time of Peace.”

Peace will come when we stretch our minds to listen to the noise within us that needs quieting and the wisdom from outside ourselves that needs to be learned. Then we will have something of value to leave the children besides hate, besides war, besides turmoil. Then peace will come.

As I prepare to spend time with family and friends in the eastern US, my prayer is that you may find the peace that Joan Chittister describes, the peace the comes from living in the sure presence of Christ’s love, the peace that God offers each of us anew in this holy season.